Stop sleeping with your ex

Realize true loyalty when you see it

Some things are simple..

Happy new year

Last 24 hours of 2014. Anyone you want to reach out to? Any wrongs you want to right?  Any unkind words or thoughts you want to take back? Anyone you want to forgive even if they haven't appologized? Any anger or hurt you want to let go of? Any negativity (people or situations) you need to remove so your 2015 starts right....go for it...world is your oyster! #2015#Legoooo

Stop looking so hard

Today's society seems to make us anxious and desperate to settle down. Just be careful that in settling down you're not "settling"......Love yourself and NEVER compromise or lower your standards to gain someone's affection or to keep someone in life....you deserve to be treated like royalty ....remember that always.

ALWAYS BE THE BIGGER PERSON....

People are always going to attack you and speak ill of you. Whether you are a church mouse or a village bicycle. Allowing people who are not significant or relevant in your life to ruffle your feathers is pointless. They do not like you and you more than likely do not like them, so ...do not lower yourself to their level.

Petty and vindictive people are essentially miserable. They spend time and energy trying to hurt and otherwise cause others demise.  At the end of the day...all that is a reflection of how they feel about themselves.

Rise above negative people....do not engage them. The best revenge is being happy and NOT being bothered.

Today: Pledge not to waste time seeking revenge on those who have hurt you. Instead pray for and wish them the best, and continue to live your fulfilled life 😉

You can't love a man into maturity

Listen sweetheart and listen really well. THERE IS NOTHING ON THIS PLANET, YOU CAN DO TO MAKE A MAN THAT ISN'T READY TO SETTLE DOWN TO DO SO....NOTHING!!!!!

Now that being said, we've been told that actions speak louder than words. It's the way he talks to you, he buys you things, pays your bills, you spend the night at his house, you cuddle after you make love, you go out in public, you meet his family and kids, everyone knows you're an item blah blah blah....it means absolutely zilch!

If a man tells you he doesn't want to be in a relationship, believe him! Do not go by his actions. If he wants to be with you nothing will stop him, if he doesn't NOTHING will make him stay!

Realize it's okay to fall for someone who doesn't love you back, its not okay to live in denial. Don't allow someone to have their cake and it too, while keeping you off the market without fully committing to you. It's not fair and it's not right. Know your worth.