Thursday, October 30, 2014

Stop complaining!!!!!

Why do us as humans like to compare and complain????? Oh she's prettier,  he's taller, they're more successful. ....just stop it!

God gives you all you need for the part of your journey you are . He never gives you more than you can handle and in Philippians 4, He instructs us not to worry about ANYTHING, but to trust in Him.

Philippians 4:6-7
Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.

Today, start appreciating what you have and admire but do not envy what others have. Always work to better yourself and strive to uplift others while you do it.

Remember always: it costs nothing to be kind to one another

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

What ever happened to good ole conversation????

Today's world has become so impersonal. I personally am very guilty of this. I'm so much more comfortable to sit on the phone and text, watsapp, instagram, tweet etc than hold a conversation. I have it so bad I don't even like skyping.

Sad as it is, I know I'm not alone. I'll stare in disbelief and debate on whether to pick up the phone if it's someone I'd rather just have a "text relationship " with. I actually sit and wonder ," why is this fool actually calling me???".

People seem to get cyber or e-confidence on the text message. They are very bold in their expressions,  usually saying things they'd never have the nerve to say in person.

Personally I think people need to grow a pair....anything that you can text, you should be bold enough to say to a person face to face.

As for this disconnect between people. There should be a rules and restrictions on texting.  You should only be allowed to text:  

1) During emergencies and
2) When you can't speak, not because you would rather not speak

Just my two cents worth

In your anger do not sin

The sin is not in being angered...for Jesus himself was angered at the people that were selling goods and in the temple, and He never sinned. The sin is in how you handle and act upon that anger....do not the devil win! Always take the time to calm yourself down first...before you react to whatever the source of your anger is. Always turn to Him in praise in times when you would rather sin through your anger

Monday, October 27, 2014

Chemistry isnt love baby

If you have great chemistry with someone doesnt mean its your Boo. Its good so what! Thats why u get chemistry with people at work. Chemistry means you both like the same things.  You can sleep with two or three people and have chemistry with them

You should have the same desire. You should be whole on your own before you meet me. How can i qualify that the chemistry and desire is not because you have issues and you looking for someone to feel a void. A soul mate does not fill a void. It compliments you. If you feel empty without them there is a problem.  God should fill you up not man!

Adopted from Kh

Fall in love with what matters

Fall in love with his heart and mind not his pockets, looks and what you think he can give you. Money comes and goes, but true love is more precious than gold! Flashy bad boys, are fun, but not worth TRYING to build a future with. Anyone who treats you like anything less than a queen......doesn't deserve you. Know your worth and NEVER settle!

Change.....

change

[cheynj]

verb (used with object), 

1.to make the form, nature, content, futurecourse, etc., of (something) different from what it is or from what it would be if left alone

Let's think about that for a minute.....and let it sink in. Change, as much as we may not want to believe or accept it, is inevitable.  We all change daily, weekly, monthly and so forth.

Imagine what our world would be like, if we all stayed exactly the same as we are for the rest of our lives! How many of us would be ok with that, let alone fulfilled?

The truth is humans are evolving creatures. I am not talking about creation and Darwinism. I am a Christian, therefore I do not believe in evolution. What I'm referring to is, the evolution of self.....that struggle of man against man....man against nature and man against himself.

It is human nature to desire and thrive for better in one's life.  Nomatter your individual level of success we have achieved, we ALL always want to do better.

So what's stopping you today? What hinders you from reaching your potential?  Think about it, evaluate it, then eliminate it!

Always remember that in life we regret more that which we DIDN'T do 😄

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

You are the weakest link......goodbye!

We all remember the game show "Weakest Link " the hostess was known for her crass and callous personality. It made for good tv and good ratings, but we can also learn so much from it too.

If your "partner"  is not banking any money, like they used to on the game or bringing any value to the team (in the case of your relationship that would be you and your significant other), why havent you cut them off?

You know your worth, so act on it and live by it!

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