Many of us, matter of fact all of us, unless you are a sociopath, desire companionship. Adam couldn't do it alone, he was lonely and so God created woman. As humans, we are social creatures, we are not equipped emotionally to go through life alone.
This applies mostly to females and possibly a few men. When you believe you are "in love", I want you to ask yourself 3 fundamental questions. If you answer no to ANY one of them, then you need to reevaluate what you are feeling.
1) Are you happy?
Don't get me wrong, all couples argue and have disagreements, but ask yourself if you truly are happy with your partner.
2) Do you feel appreciated?
Or does your partner take you for granted. Do they abuse or neglect you and are sure you aren't going to leave them? Do they thank you, when you do something for them. Do they tell you how they feel about you? Are you a priority in their life?
3) If your father found out how this man is treating you, how would he feel?
Would he welcome him to the family with open arms, or would he be heartbroken and saddened that you were allowing someone to treat you like that?
3 fairly simple questions, with very deeply emotional implications. These are very powerful questions, you need to ask yourself if you are questioning whether you are in love or not.
The fact that you are even questioning it is a red flag. Please always remember your worth. Being alone doesnt have to mean you will be lonely. Surround yourself with positive people and you will attract such
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