Happy new year

Last 24 hours of 2014. Anyone you want to reach out to? Any wrongs you want to right?  Any unkind words or thoughts you want to take back? Anyone you want to forgive even if they haven't appologized? Any anger or hurt you want to let go of? Any negativity (people or situations) you need to remove so your 2015 starts right....go for it...world is your oyster! #2015#Legoooo

Stop looking so hard

Today's society seems to make us anxious and desperate to settle down. Just be careful that in settling down you're not "settling"......Love yourself and NEVER compromise or lower your standards to gain someone's affection or to keep someone in life....you deserve to be treated like royalty ....remember that always.

ALWAYS BE THE BIGGER PERSON....

People are always going to attack you and speak ill of you. Whether you are a church mouse or a village bicycle. Allowing people who are not significant or relevant in your life to ruffle your feathers is pointless. They do not like you and you more than likely do not like them, so ...do not lower yourself to their level.

Petty and vindictive people are essentially miserable. They spend time and energy trying to hurt and otherwise cause others demise.  At the end of the day...all that is a reflection of how they feel about themselves.

Rise above negative people....do not engage them. The best revenge is being happy and NOT being bothered.

Today: Pledge not to waste time seeking revenge on those who have hurt you. Instead pray for and wish them the best, and continue to live your fulfilled life 😉

You can't love a man into maturity

Listen sweetheart and listen really well. THERE IS NOTHING ON THIS PLANET, YOU CAN DO TO MAKE A MAN THAT ISN'T READY TO SETTLE DOWN TO DO SO....NOTHING!!!!!

Now that being said, we've been told that actions speak louder than words. It's the way he talks to you, he buys you things, pays your bills, you spend the night at his house, you cuddle after you make love, you go out in public, you meet his family and kids, everyone knows you're an item blah blah blah....it means absolutely zilch!

If a man tells you he doesn't want to be in a relationship, believe him! Do not go by his actions. If he wants to be with you nothing will stop him, if he doesn't NOTHING will make him stay!

Realize it's okay to fall for someone who doesn't love you back, its not okay to live in denial. Don't allow someone to have their cake and it too, while keeping you off the market without fully committing to you. It's not fair and it's not right. Know your worth.

Love doesn't hurt

Many of us, matter of fact all of us, unless you are a sociopath, desire companionship. Adam couldn't do it alone, he was lonely and so God created woman. As humans, we are social creatures, we are not equipped emotionally to go through life alone.

This applies mostly to females and possibly a few men. When you believe you are "in love", I want you to ask yourself 3 fundamental questions. If you answer no to ANY one of them, then you need to reevaluate what you are feeling.

1) Are you happy?
Don't get me wrong, all couples argue and have disagreements, but ask yourself if you truly are happy with your partner.

2) Do you feel appreciated?
Or does your partner take you for granted. Do they abuse or neglect you and are sure you aren't going to leave them? Do they thank you,  when you do something for them. Do they tell you how they feel about you? Are you a priority in their life?

3) If your father found out how this man is treating you, how would he feel?
Would he welcome him to the family with open arms, or would he be heartbroken and saddened that you were allowing someone to treat you like that?

3 fairly simple questions, with very deeply emotional implications. These are very powerful questions, you need to ask yourself if you are questioning whether you are in love or not.

The fact that you are even questioning it is a red flag. Please always remember your worth. Being alone doesnt have to mean you will be lonely. Surround yourself with positive people and you will attract such

Love unconditionally

It’s Unconditional

by Joyce Meyer - posted November 02, 2014

But God shows and clearly proves His [own] love for us by the fact that while we were still sinners, Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed One) died for us. 
—Romans 5:8

According to God's Word, He loved us before the world was formed, before we loved Him or believed in Him. God does not require us to earn His love, and we must not require others to earn ours. We should realize that love is something we are to become; it is not something we do and then don't do. We cannot turn it on and off, depending on whom we want to give it to and how they are treating us.

As believers in Jesus Christ, the love we are to manifest to the world is the unconditional love of God flowing through us to them. Our love has conditions and limits; His does not.

Loving people unconditionally is a very big challenge. I would be tempted to say it is impossible, but God tells us to do it, and He never commands us to do something and then leaves us to perform it on our own. His grace (His power, ability, and favor) is sufficient for us, which means He enables us to do what He has called us to do.

God actually sends some people into our lives to function as "sand¬paper" to help smooth our rough edges. Learning to walk in love with unlovely people is one of the most important tools God uses to develop our spiritual maturity.

Love Others Today: "Lord, give me grace to love everyone in my life, even the difficult ones."

He who is without sin.....cast the first stone

The saddest thing about humans is their hypocrisy. We are all always so quick to pass judgment on one another, but what gives us the right?  In Luke 7 we are instructed to judge not.  Yet everyday someones scandal or mistake is broadcast for the world to see, texts, pics, screenshots, videos etc. The even sadder part is 9 times out of 10, the betrayal is by a confidant. Why do people thrive offa hurting others. How can you find joy in anothers demise??? We got to do better and stop fueling the fire by entertaining malicious people and their propaganda. No one is perfect!

Stop complaining!!!!!

Why do us as humans like to compare and complain????? Oh she's prettier,  he's taller, they're more successful. ....just stop it!

God gives you all you need for the part of your journey you are . He never gives you more than you can handle and in Philippians 4, He instructs us not to worry about ANYTHING, but to trust in Him.

Philippians 4:6-7
⁶ Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.⁷ Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.

Today, start appreciating what you have and admire but do not envy what others have. Always work to better yourself and strive to uplift others while you do it.

Remember always: it costs nothing to be kind to one another

What ever happened to good ole conversation????

Today's world has become so impersonal. I personally am very guilty of this. I'm so much more comfortable to sit on the phone and text, watsapp, instagram, tweet etc than hold a conversation. I have it so bad I don't even like skyping.

Sad as it is, I know I'm not alone. I'll stare in disbelief and debate on whether to pick up the phone if it's someone I'd rather just have a "text relationship " with. I actually sit and wonder ," why is this fool actually calling me???".

People seem to get cyber or e-confidence on the text message. They are very bold in their expressions,  usually saying things they'd never have the nerve to say in person.

Personally I think people need to grow a pair....anything that you can text, you should be bold enough to say to a person face to face.

As for this disconnect between people. There should be a rules and restrictions on texting.  You should only be allowed to text:  

1) During emergencies and
2) When you can't speak, not because you would rather not speak

Just my two cents worth

In your anger do not sin

The sin is not in being angered...for Jesus himself was angered at the people that were selling goods and in the temple, and He never sinned. The sin is in how you handle and act upon that anger....do not the devil win! Always take the time to calm yourself down first...before you react to whatever the source of your anger is. Always turn to Him in praise in times when you would rather sin through your anger

Chemistry isnt love baby

If you have great chemistry with someone doesnt mean its your Boo. Its good so what! Thats why u get chemistry with people at work. Chemistry means you both like the same things.  You can sleep with two or three people and have chemistry with them

You should have the same desire. You should be whole on your own before you meet me. How can i qualify that the chemistry and desire is not because you have issues and you looking for someone to feel a void. A soul mate does not fill a void. It compliments you. If you feel empty without them there is a problem.  God should fill you up not man!

Adopted from Kh

Fall in love with what matters

Fall in love with his heart and mind not his pockets, looks and what you think he can give you. Money comes and goes, but true love is more precious than gold! Flashy bad boys, are fun, but not worth TRYING to build a future with. Anyone who treats you like anything less than a queen......doesn't deserve you. Know your worth and NEVER settle!

Change.....

change

[cheynj]

verb (used with object), 

1.to make the form, nature, content, futurecourse, etc., of (something) different from what it is or from what it would be if left alone

Let's think about that for a minute.....and let it sink in. Change, as much as we may not want to believe or accept it, is inevitable.  We all change daily, weekly, monthly and so forth.

Imagine what our world would be like, if we all stayed exactly the same as we are for the rest of our lives! How many of us would be ok with that, let alone fulfilled?

The truth is humans are evolving creatures. I am not talking about creation and Darwinism. I am a Christian, therefore I do not believe in evolution. What I'm referring to is, the evolution of self.....that struggle of man against man....man against nature and man against himself.

It is human nature to desire and thrive for better in one's life.  Nomatter your individual level of success we have achieved, we ALL always want to do better.

So what's stopping you today? What hinders you from reaching your potential?  Think about it, evaluate it, then eliminate it!

Always remember that in life we regret more that which we DIDN'T do 😄

You are the weakest link......goodbye!

We all remember the game show "Weakest Link " the hostess was known for her crass and callous personality. It made for good tv and good ratings, but we can also learn so much from it too.

If your "partner"  is not banking any money, like they used to on the game or bringing any value to the team (in the case of your relationship that would be you and your significant other), why havent you cut them off?

You know your worth, so act on it and live by it!

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